The Effects of Teen Friendships
I will be looking mainly at Stephen Chbosky’s The Perks of Being a Wallflower.
Everyone knows how hard being a teenager can be, but imagine enduring it alone. Though friends are one of the most important aspects of a teen’s life, could they also be their greatest downfall? From sex to drugs, the effects of teenage friendships are always apparent whether they are positive or negative.
Charlie: Observer. Wants to make everyone happy. Feels bad about things that aren’t necessarily his fault. Very honest about things, but sometimes too honest. Best friends are seniors Sam and Patrick. They fully accept Charlie for who he is.
Influences: Sam, Patrick,
How Sam Influences Charlie: Charlie likes Sam and truly cares about her and what she feels. If he feels there is anything he can do to make her happy, he does. Also, she and Patrick introduce him to their way of life ex: drugs, sex and alcohol however do not pressure him.
How Patrick Influences Charlie: Patrick is the first person to connect with Charlie and to become his friend. He invites him to parties, talks to him in school and shares his secrets with him. When Patrick is trying to deal with his breakup with his boyfriend, he drinks a lot and Charlie tries to comfort him. When Patrick drops Charlie off at home, Patrick tries to kiss him and Charlie kisses back because he thought that’s what Patrick wanted. He is later told by Sam that this moment was one in which he shouldn’t try to make other people feel happy.
Both Sam and Patrick know that Charlie is a little “odd”, but they also realize that he is a wallflower. However, despite knowing this, they accept him as a friend and offer their friendship in return.
Though teen friendships can have both positive and negative effects on teens, it is ultimately up to the individual to make up their own mind.